Switch – Chapter 2, Where’s the Bright Spot?
Posted by JeffKing on March 22, 2010 · 5 Comments
Is it easier to look for the good or the bad? Here are some studies that are referenced in the second chapter of “Switch, When Change is Hard,” by Chip & Dan Heath.
- A study of all 558 emotional words in the English language found that 62% were negative.
- People who were shown photos of bad and good images focused more time on the bad images.
- When people learn positive and negative aspects about other people, the negative aspects stick to the memory more than the positive aspects.
- When people explain events in their lives they are more likely to spontaneously bring up negative events as opposed to positive ones.
The authors then quote Leslie Fiedler, who I paraphrase here: novelists have gained a lot of fame writing about marital problems, however their has never been best seller about a happy marriage.
So, I pose this question: Do you look for the negative prior to the positive? When you start a staff meeting; when you meet individually with a co-worker or employee; when giving feedback, do you first share the negative and then the positive? When problem solving with your team, do you look at what is not working before you look at what is working?
The following is a story out of chapter 2 that shares how looking for the bright spot led to success.
“In 1990 Jerry Sterin was working for Save the Children. He was tasked with decreasing malnutrition in Vietnam. There were three big problems; sanitation was horrendous, clean water was not available and most rural families were ignorant about nutrition. Combating these three problems would be enormous and expensive. And he did not have the resources or the support to tackle those three problem areas.
He began to look for the bright spot. He interviewed the mothers who had the healthiest children. He found that the healthy kids ate the same amount of food, only four times a day versus the norm of two times a day. He also found that kids were hand fed when appropriate, instead of fending for themselves. Finally these kids were given shrimp and crab mixed in with their normal food. Shrimp and crab were generally considered an adult food. And the mothers were mixing in sweet potato greens into the food, which was considered a low class food.
He then organized cooking groups with the mothers who had malnourished kids with the mothers who had healthy kids. In these cooking groups the “bright spot mothers” were able to teach the other mothers how to cook in a healthier way. Six months later 65% of the kids had proper nutrition and it stayed that way.”
What if tomorrow you started building on the positive, instead of focusing on the negative? My advice is, “If you look, you will find it.” Please share your thoughts, feelings and opinions, I am looking forward to it!! – JK
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2010 February E-News
Posted by MicheleEdiger on March 11, 2010 · Leave a Comment
2010 – February Issue
“Tools for the Process Age”
“What is so remarkable to me about the PCM model is that it has such
concrete, measurable ways to implement what was learned during the training
– I can immediately and directly apply it to life. After just three days of
training, I have the tools that I need to enhance my communication skills as well as to objectively evaluate my success in connecting with others. Now I can spend the rest of my life learning how to use them.”
- Sarah Gillespie, Challenge Course Specialist, Challenge Options, Oskaloosa, KS
NE CORNER
Q. What is the Process Age and why did Next Element get to “name it?”
A. We are entering an era of global connectedness and immense capacity for
greatness or destruction. In this era, inspiration comes when relationships
and communication are at the center, metrics inform methods, substance and
style cooperate, diversity is leveraged, and effectiveness is the goal.
We’ve named this the Process Age because the tools for success are about
process, not content. Next Element has tools for the Process Age. – NGR
NE-OS RESEARCH UPDATE
The Next Element Outcomes System (NE-OS) is currently undergoing the next
phase of research – criterion and discriminant validity, internal
consistency, and test-retest reliability. We are grateful to our worldwide
team of research partners. From New Zealand to France, Romania to Germany,
North Carolina to California, the data is trickling in. Stay tuned or visit
our website for updates! – NGR
PCM NUGGET
Whether it is being on an adventure course or facilitating an important
discussion, things begin to change the longer we are outside our comfort
zone. Read our blog post, “Moving Outside the Comfort Zone” by Jamie.
Learn how to recognize distress and how it can undermine our ability to
discover solutions to the problems we face.
MISCELLANY
Jamie enjoyed connecting with old friends and making new ones at the ETDA
(Experiential Training and Development Alliance) annual Summit in December.
Tracy Weber of Kaleidoscope Learning Circle, Michigan; our Jamie; Sylvia Dresser, ACCT Executive Director, Illinois.
WHERE WE’LL BE
The Next Element team will be presenting at the ACCT (Association for
Challenge Course Technology) Annual Conference Feb. 4 – 7, 2010 in Atlanta.
We hope to see you there.
Feb. 17 Nate and Jeff are presenting “The Socially Intelligent Leader” for
the monthly educational seminar at Wichita Independent Business
Association. For details or to sign up, visit www.wiba.org.
Mid-February will find us in Frankenmuth, Michigan – brrrrr!! We are very
grateful for our friends and collegues, Tracy Weber and Randy Bierlein who
are hosting a PCM seminar for some of their associates. Tracy is also
graciously sharing her team-building services with us. Even though it will
surely be cold, our hearts are warmed by their generosity.
UPCOMING EVENTS
PCM® Core Competency Training – February 22 – 24, 2010
Advanced PCM® Conflict Resolution Seminar – February 25 – 26, 2010
Process Facilitation Seminar – March 8 – 10, 2010
Facilitating Self-Efficacy – March 11 – 12, 2010
Relate to Your Mate Seminar – April 17, 2010
PCM® Trainer Certification – April 26 – 30, 2010
WHITE PAPER
Random vs. The Peter Principle, or not. Why don’t competent employees
flourish when promoted? Read this WhitePaper on our website for some
thoughts on how to improve employee promotion practices. -JK
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Random vs. The Peter Principle, or not.
Posted by JeffKing on January 27, 2010 · Leave a Comment
Clive Thompson reports in The New York Times 9th Annual Year in Ideas, on a study completed by three Italian scientists on The Peter Principal. This study is published in the journal Physica A.
They found that employees who were promoted at random, or alternating promotions between the best and worst performers, had higher rates of success in their promotions than did those whose promotions were based on competence in their current job, thus supporting “The Peter Principle.”
The Peter Principle is a term coined by the psychologist, Laurence J. Peter. It refers to promoting based on an employee’s competence in their current job. This process takes place when individuals are promoted until they are incompetent in their new role. The company then suffers because it is bogged down with too many of these promoted, albeit incompetent employees. A once stellar employee becomes a mediocre employee – at best.
This happens a lot in businesses – an employee is doing a really good job so it seems like a good idea to promote them. The employee flounders and we wonder why.
I have a three part suggested solution.
Step One: Training. In a recent Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) Survey of Employee Training (SEPT 09) during personal visits to more than 1,000 private establishments with 50 or more employees, it was found that employers provided an average of 50 minutes of management training.
Management training is training in supervising employees and in implementing employment practices. Examples include training in how to conduct employee appraisals, managing employees, resolving conflicts, following selection/hiring practices, and implementing regulations and policies.
Most of the time when an employee is promoted they are given supervision and management responsibilities. However because the employee is so competent at their current job, the employer may not see the merit of providing training specific for the new position.
We could call these new skills “process skills”, training directed at the process of having a team meeting, managing employees, and resolving conflict. I challenge you to think how much money an organization could save if it invested in training process skills prior to a promotion. Or, require that an employee possess these process skills as a requirement for promotion.
Step Two: Develop your employee’s social-emotional intelligence.
Characteristics of Social Intelligence include: empathy, attunement, social cognition and self presentation, synchrony and influence.
Characteristics of Emotional Intelligence include: self-control, zeal, persistence in spite of challenges, and self-motivation.
Companies could continually train employees in the development of their social-emotional skills. They would then be better prepared for a promotion, or at least have the assertiveness to turn down the offer of a promotion for a job they knew they were not prepared to do well.
Studies by Daniel Goleman and Martin Seligman have demonstrated that social- emotional skills increase net profits, build employee efficacy and reduce turnover. Promotion or not, social-emotional skills increase the strength and producing power of an organization.
Step Three: Give pay raises to employees who stay put, but don’t get promoted. This idea is a little… well a lot against the status quo. What if you paid someone to stay right where they were at, especially if they were really good at their job? They won’t feel the pressure to get more money through a promotion. They could depend on their pay increases being tied to staying put and staying proficient. We could call this an income promotion for proficiency and competence or “Pay to Stay.” Think how much pressure that would take off on an employee and their company.
It would also take the pressure off of someone accepting a position, or applying for a position they are not qualified for. This could also aid in having only those qualified applying for those promotions. I have a hunch that this would also reduce turnover as individuals become more satisfied with where they are, and with how they are doing.
The three steps I propose are: Process Skills Training, Social-Emotional Skills Training and Pay to Stay.
Or you could promote at random – it beats The Peter Principle.
- by Jeff King
Links to further reading referenced in this White Paper:
http://www.nytimes.com/projects/magazine/ideas/2009/#r-2
The Peter Principle: Why Things Always Go Wrong, by Laurence J. Peter, Raymond Hull, HarperCollins Publishers, Pub. Date: April 2009 ISBN-13: 9780061699061
http://www.bls.gov/news.release/sept1.t01.htm
www.time.com/time/classroom/psych/unit5_article1.html
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Wichita Eagle Article – Employee Complaints
Posted by NateRegier on January 8, 2010 · Leave a Comment
The Wichita Eagle published an article by Nate on January 7, 2010. Learn some creative ways to help employees resolve personal conflict and grow their emotional and social intelligences.
Formula for Employee Complaints (pdf)
http://www.kansas.com/business/perspectives/story/1126050.html (direct link to the newspaper article on-line)
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