Posted by JeffKing on May 6, 2010 · 1 Comment
In chapter four of “Switch, When Change is Hard,” the authors, Chip and Dan Heath, recount a powerful story about a Kindergarten teacher.
At the beginning of the school year, Crystal Jones’ Kindergarten class had some serious skill gaps. Some of the students could not hold their pencil, there was a large gap in the student level of skill, and the one common denominator was that all of the students were no where near where they should to be ready for first grade next year. There were many tests and many hoops she could create for the students to jump through in order to measure and assess their learning skills, however she chose a different a path.
The question in her mind was, “How do I light the fire of a kindergartner?” Her conclusion was that she had to change their language. She announced at the beginning of the school year that all of the students would be 3rd graders by the end of the year. She knew that kindergartners thought that 3rd graders were bigger, cooler and smarter. She defined for her students that the word scholar is, “someone who lives to learn and is good at it.” She asked all of her students to refer to one another as scholars. When she had visitors to her classroom, she introduced the students as scholars, and then she would ask the kids to shout out what a scholar is.
By springtime the students were reading at a second grade level. So she threw them a graduation party. By the end of the school year 90 percent of the students were reading above a 3rd grade level. Nine months earlier, many of these same kids did not even know the alphabet!
One of my mentors, Paul Unruh, introduced me to the concept of “change your language, change your life.” This is what Crystal Jones did. She knew that it was not about IQ. She knew that if her students believed in success, felt successful and talked successful, they would be successful. She changed the students’ language. She influenced the students to speak the language of success and they become successful.
What if you changed the language in your organization? What if you believed, felt and talked like you were as successful as you wanted to be in one year? This concept has been extremely helpful to me for many years and when I came across this story in “Switch” I wanted to share it. No matter what happens, each day I believe, feel and talk the language of success and you know what? It has worked out wonderfully for me and NE!
Posted by JamieRemsberg on April 28, 2010 · Leave a Comment
Have you every been driving behind a car that was super loud, and when accelerating, it blurts loud pops of sound with no warning, and you think to yourself, “man that car could use a good muffler!” For some of us, this lack of a muffler can really get us sideways around our ideas and beliefs on how a car should sound and behave when in operation. So what do mufflers have to do with my 6-year old?
First, you must understand that my 6-year old experiences the world with strong reactions, likes and dislikes.
“I hate spaghetti!”
“I love spaghetti!”
“I hate school!”
“Cool!!”
“This rocks!”
“This is boring!”
His body and face emote energy through his reactions, and sends an invitation to everyone who interacts with him to express emotional energy with him.
Here is the kicker…there is nothing wrong with him. He is okay. He is not in distress, even though he expresses negative feelings such as, “I’m mad!” He is experiencing the world through his filter of reactions, likes and dislikes. These reactions can be loud, animated and full of energy, like a car accelerating with no muffler.
He has not grown his muffler yet. What I mean is that he has not yet figured out how to muffle some of his reactions. He will always react first, and it would be unrealistic and inauthentic for him to do anything else. He is learning that there are times when he must have a quiet voice, like school, and he is learning how to self-regulate or “muffle” his reactions. He is coming up with fun ways to quietly react, which at times involves less animated body movement, a softer voice, and keeping his negative reactions to himself.
Remember when I said some of us get sideways with our ideas and beliefs on how a car should sound and behave when in operation? The same can be true when interacting with someone that exhibits strong reactions, likes and dislikes. By now you may have made a connection with who this is in your life, and I invite you to “listen to understand.” To accomplish this, remember that they are okay and are just reacting to the world as it comes at them. They are inviting you to emote, to express energy back, to react with them. If you can not muster up the energy, or you feel it is not an appropriate time, model your best muffled response.
Posted by JamieRemsberg on October 2, 2009 · 1 Comment
What do you get when you mix a scenic wooded trail, a premier liberal arts college, and a soft-skills training and development firm? We think it’s the perfect combination.
Next Element is excited to announce our partnership with Bethel College, North Newton, KS to construct an adventure course that will span parts of campus as well as the scenic Sand Creek Trail.
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Posted by NateRegier on September 1, 2009 · Leave a Comment
Next Element has formed a research partnership with MUSE School California to study the impact of Process Communication Model (PCM®) and Facilitating Self-Efficacy teacher-training programs on student social-emotional learning, academic achievement, and behavior. MUSE selected Next Element because of their expertise in helping companies align metrics and training with organizational communication and staff development. MUSE is a Reggio-inspired school focusing on child-centered learning, social-emotional skill-building, and environmental consciousness.
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